10 Of The Loveliest Wedding Guest Hats & Headpieces
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From bows to boaters, turn heads with these charming wedding guest hats
Are you ready for wedding season? While you may have your dress and shoes sorted, a wedding isn’t really a wedding if you’re not wearing a funky (but sophisticated) hat. Let yourself be the best dressed guest with our edit of the best wedding hats for 2025.
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The Rules Around Wedding Guest Hats
So, do you have to wear a hat to a wedding? In years (or rather, centuries) gone by, the answer would have been ‘yes’ – but today, it’s more of an ‘it depends’ situation. For more traditional or formal wedding celebrations, a hat is definitely encourage – if not listed in the dress code. However, more modern, intimate or relaxed nuptial ceremonies (these are the more popular today) might not require one.
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As for the types of hats on offer for wedding guests, you can choose from:
- Wide-Brimmed Hat: Large and dramatic, these hats provide sun protection and a striking, elegant statement; often chosen for outdoor or formal weddings.
- Boater Hat: A flat-crowned, stiff-brimmed hat, usually made of straw and often decorated with ribbons or flowers; conveys vintage charm and suits garden or summer weddings.
- Pillbox Hat: Small and rounded, typically worn perched on top of the head; brings retro, chic sophistication, often adorned with veiling or luxe fabric for winter or formal events.
- Fascinator: A lightweight headpiece worn on the side or front, decorated with feathers, beads, or flowers; a playful, elegant option that works for both formal and semi-formal weddings.
- Saucer/Dish Hat: A sleek, disc-shaped hat usually worn at an angle; adds a bold and fashionable edge, especially appropriate for black-tie or glamorous ceremonies.
- Headband: Minimalist and comfortable, can be embellished with fabric, beads, or flowers; ideal for relaxed styling and modern looks.
- Hatinator: A cross between a hat and a fascinator, larger than a fascinator but lighter than a full hat; suitable for guests preferring statement style without the bulk of traditional hats.
- Cloche: A close-fitting, bell-shaped hat that hugs the head and brings a 1920s vintage Parisian feel; frequently chosen for retro-themed or formal weddings.
- Cocktail Hat: A small structured hat, often richly adorned; a definitive choice for formal events or evening occasions.
One source of style inspiration is, as always, the royal family. It’s rare you’ll see a royal at a formal event (including a wedding) without some sort of hat or fascinator – and the more ornately decorated, the better.
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Should The Mother-Of-The-Bride Wear A Hat?
While not a strict requirement, it’s tradition for the mother-of-the-bride to wear a hat at her daughter’s wedding. The sartorial custom stretches back a few hundred years, falling in line with societal trends that asked women to wear hats for formal occasions. A hat was thought to symbolise the wearer’s modesty, as well as her good taste. (After all, a good hat is the crowning glory of any outfit.) The hat worn by the mother-of-the-bride was also used to mark her out as a key member of the wedding party. As per tradition, the mother-of-the-bride also dictated the rules for hat-wearing at the wedding; other guests were only allowed to remove their headgear once the mother-of-the-bride had done so.
These days, however, it’s not a necessity for the mother-of-the-bride to wear a hat – although some occasions might call for one. Formal ceremonies and church weddings still often require the mother-of-the-bride to wear a hat or headpiece, and at British weddings the tradition is still pretty solid. If you’re not sure what the protocol is, simply check in with the bride and groom – they’ll be able to give you some insight on any dress codes and traditions they’d like upheld.
Etiquette Notes
While, these days, the rules around wearing hats to weddings is far more relaxed, there are still some etiquette points to keep in mind. Most small and medium size hats can be worn throughout the day, both inside and outdoors (making them quite convenient if they form part of your hairstyle). Those wearing a wide-brimmed hat, however, will need to remove it during the ceremony (so as to not block someone else’s view of the bride and groom) and at a wedding sit-down dinner.
